Making a financial comeback after a decade of full-blown Millenial YOLO-ing


The main reason I started this blog was to develop some personal accountability around my finances – I need to confess some of my greatest financial missteps and track my progress as a recovering financial flake. A second aim of the blog, however, is to further the conversation about some of the damaging narratives regarding Millenials, money, career, and lifestyle that continue to be perpetuated. The reason I think this Millenial sociocultural dynamic is so compelling and warrants more attention is because I completely fell into the trap.

It’s this “30 is the new 20” philosophy that makes your twenties seem like a write-off decade where you shouldn’t preoccupy yourself with menial tasks such as building a solid career or saving for retirement. You should travel, volunteer, hook up with countless people, soulsearch, and wander aimlessly for as long as you can – you’ll have time to adult later!

Imagine my surprise when I stumbled across this TedTalk and Dr. Meg Jay schooled me on how 30 is not, in fact, the new 20:

That was a tough pill to swallow since I only found out about all this at age 29…gah.

So why do I need some financial accountability in my life? Confession time: I went full-on Millenial Mode for the last decade. After finishing not one, but two university degrees (man, those pieces of paper are expensive), I ran off to live abroad at 23 and spent almost every disposable dollar I had on travel, food, drink, parties, and adventure.  Then I went back and got another degree!

What was my rationale? You only live once. Weekend in Paris? You only live once. Countless happy hours at rooftop bars? You only live once. Obscene gym membership at the most expensive hotel&spa in the city? It’s good for me – and you only live once.

Before YOLO was even a thing, it was my catch-all for feeling okay about recklessly spending every dime I had. And just about everyone (I am so guilty of this) feeds into it. What are some things I heard on repeat during my six years of travel and work abroad?

“Better do it now while you still can!”

“Better do it now before you _______________(get married/have kids/settle down)!”

“This is what your twenties are for.”

“Your twenties don’t even matter! Your thirties are the new twenties!”

“What if you die tomorrow? Live life to the fullest.”

Ugh. It makes me cringe a little just reading it back. What makes me cringe even more is that I was often the one saying these things to others! I drank the Kool-Aid and I really believed your twenties were a decade that didn’t matter much, financially or otherwise. What I have only started to learn is that this narrative can be super destructive. Your twenties do matter, and in hindsight, I wish there had been more of a balance during that part of my life. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Adventure and travel are rewarding. But so are financial stability, meaningful relationships, and a fulfilling career.

I loved my carefree twenties so much and I don’t regret them. But I think I could have still enjoyed them and not used “being in my twenties” as a license to be irresponsible and wasteful. The cold, hard truth is that my twenties plunged me into horrible financial patterns that I am only now starting to escape.

This blog will document my road to financial awesomeness, and hopefully provide others with some insights and inspiration to take charge of their own financial lives by reading about some of my big f*ck-ups. Even though my twenties were a bit of a financial disaster, it’s never too late to take the reins and get it together.

The time is nigh – let’s make it rain, people.

11 thoughts on “Making a financial comeback after a decade of full-blown Millenial YOLO-ing

  1. Welcome to the path of financial awesomeness! It’s not as boring as it may seem over here 🙂

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    1. Thanks for the warm welcome! Ha I know right, I already love my budgeting spreadsheets so much 😉

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  2. Wish you the best, I hope you don’t quit blogging. Let us know how things are going, you may have answers for what others who are now awake and try to get back up (like me)

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    1. Thank you so much for reading! I can only hope some of this resonates and offers some support or insight.


  3. Wow – you have literally summed up my 20s and the what-have-I-done hell that is turning 30. It’s nice to see I’m not the only YOLO-er who has awoken… good luck, and keep posting!

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    1. I am so glad I’m not the only one! Seriously, I’ve had so many head-in-hand moments looking back, thinking what the actual…? Checked out your blog and I’m looking forward to following along as you crush your debt 🙂


  4. You’re not alone many of us were there YOLO-dling along with you! YOLO-DO-LE-HE-HOOOOO! By the time I settled into my first job where I could save and invest money, I was 4 to 5 years behind those I had graduated university with. It’s ok because now I’m kicking their butts on the way to early retirement and I’m gonna go enjoy an unlimited amount of YOLO adventures when I’ve hit my financial target for FIRE

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    1. Hahaha love it! I have to keep reminding myself of this – what’s done is done and now we are flying past everyone else on the road to financial freedom!


  5. It’s so great to find you here! I can totally relate, I think we’re the same age. And while I was slightly more responsible in my early 20s (read and implemented some knowledge on my personal finance) I went downhill in my mid-20s until now. Now, while facing a job loss and other source of depression I’m fighting for my financial stability and my first step is documenting it on a blog!

    It’s refreshing to find a perspective I can somewhat relate to, instead of all the already-success stories out there that are frankly a little intimidating.

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words! I am glad you are finding parts of my story relatable and that it may help in some small way. Can’t wait to hear more about your journey – blogging is such an awesome way to stay accountable while getting your finances together.


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